Time Out

December 21, 2023

At our Advent dinner and Bible study tonight, we listened to a presentation on the Christmas story as told in Matthew’s gospel. The speaker reminded us that in the midst of all the uncertainty, Joseph was able to sleep, and that in that sleep, an angel changed his plans. 

The speaker told us that we often need to take a time out. Life gets so fast-paced and hectic that we easily lose control of the game. He gave five reasons for a time out: 1) to give players a rest, 2) to change strategy, 3) to break the momentum of the opposition, 4) to fire up your team, and 5) to draw up a specific play. What is true in basketball is true in life. 

Particularly at this time of year people, especially Christians, get so wound up with extra parties, gatherings, times of worship, shopping, and decorating that we get caught up in a whirlwind of activity that takes over, carrying us, or rather, driving us in a headlong pursuit of something we never quite are able to catch. Instead of God being in control, the appointment calendar rules our lives, often taking us to places we don’t want to be. It’s no secret that this time of year is a major stressor in people’s lives. Often, a time out is in order.

Give yourself a rest; Lord knows you need it. Change your strategy. If what you are doing isn’t bringing you joy, you might want to let it go. Break the momentum. If you’re feeling driven by events, people, and a calendar; if it feels like everything and everyone else is running your life, break the momentum: call a time out. Maybe the season has you worn down, or you’re navigating illness, the death of a loved one, emotional, relational, or financial insecurity. Time out with Jesus might be just what you need to “get back in the game.” It’s possible that the pressures of the season are overwhelming all your defenses. A time out can give you breathing space to do something different, even if that something is to do nothing at all.

When God created the world, he rested after six days of work. He commanded that we do the same, because he knows that everyday life can wear you down. Take a time out with Jesus. Simply rest in his presence, and allow him to renew your spirit so you have room and strength for joy.